Okay, so last night one of my associates invited me out to the club for her birthday. I'm thinking to myself that it will be fun because I had "one of those weeks". I was thinking about it all day at work, how good it would feel to have a drink in my hand, just dancing the worries and stressors of the week away while the loud music engulfed me. So, I get off work, the night progresses and I get dressed to a T....I mean ya girl was looking GROWN~N~SEXY!!
Now, before I get all the way into the story, let me just add that I only go to the club with my girl J. I'm pretty sure that mostly everyone can relate to having (now or in the past) at least one good friend who no matter what, you can tell everything and not worry about what they think or what they're gonna say. The friend who's vibe matches yours , yall vibe off each other, and you know without a doubt that when you go out, if anything goes down, she's not running the other way...your fight is her fight and she's right there getting crunk with you if need be. (Even though we don't look for trouble, we go out to have a good time and we really are in our own little world). The friend that you can talk to and say things just by looking at her or have inside jokes and get she gets it right on time without having to wonder why your looking at her crazy. Anyway, I could go on and on about J. But, I won't. She's a great person and I'm lucky to have a great friend like that.
So, anyway I took a chance and said yeah, I'll go to the club with this other girl because again, I had a bad week. J couldn't go because her husband just came back from being deployed and I understood that. I got to the club, ALONE, and I didn't even know where the hell the other girl was. I had to text her to see where her birthday table was. She texted me back and I found them. Now, I don't know about you, but me and my girl have club etiquette. The funny thing is that it wasn't something that we discussed, it was automatic. J and I have this thing that we don't leave each other alone in the club. If she goes to the bathroom, I'm there. And vice versa. If I go to the bar, she's going to. Vice Versa. So, what happens if one of us is on the dancefloor? The other one waits or is also on the dancefloor.
Last night, I was so out of my element. This girl (let's call her T), she'd be like "yeah, girl that's my song, let's go" We go get on the floor, we're dancing, I turn around and the next thing I know, she's gone. Gone to the bar, gone to the table, gone to the bathroom. Hell, I don't know where she went. But, to me that's messed up. Anything could happen. YOU NEVER DISAPPPEAR in a club!! I need to know where you are (and vice versa) just incase s!@* goes down!! To top it off, I didn't know any of the girls that were at this party...do you think she introduced us? Um, no!! I was so pissed. Here I am looking fly, walking around the club looking for her, dancing every so often and I feel like I really could've stayed home! Oh, and did I mention that when I ordered me and J's fav drink (sex on the beach), I had a amateur bartender that made my drink ALL WRONG? I was so upset, I took the drink anyway because at that point I needed something!! Lol!!
I got home around 2:30 am. You think I didn't call J to tell her that I had a bad time without her....SURE DID!! So, I should've went with my gut feeling, but I didn't. It's a bad feeling when your looking forward to something and the outcome isn't what you expected. I just felt it..I knew that I wouldn't have as much of a good time with T as I do with J. What a waste of time!!
J is my girl, and we just rock it!! I will never go against my gut feeling again!!
For what it's worth, I still have a bangin' outfit to wear when me and J go out again!! One doesn't outshine the other....we compliment each other...it's cool! Until, next time...
Now, before I get all the way into the story, let me just add that I only go to the club with my girl J. I'm pretty sure that mostly everyone can relate to having (now or in the past) at least one good friend who no matter what, you can tell everything and not worry about what they think or what they're gonna say. The friend who's vibe matches yours , yall vibe off each other, and you know without a doubt that when you go out, if anything goes down, she's not running the other way...your fight is her fight and she's right there getting crunk with you if need be. (Even though we don't look for trouble, we go out to have a good time and we really are in our own little world). The friend that you can talk to and say things just by looking at her or have inside jokes and get she gets it right on time without having to wonder why your looking at her crazy. Anyway, I could go on and on about J. But, I won't. She's a great person and I'm lucky to have a great friend like that.
So, anyway I took a chance and said yeah, I'll go to the club with this other girl because again, I had a bad week. J couldn't go because her husband just came back from being deployed and I understood that. I got to the club, ALONE, and I didn't even know where the hell the other girl was. I had to text her to see where her birthday table was. She texted me back and I found them. Now, I don't know about you, but me and my girl have club etiquette. The funny thing is that it wasn't something that we discussed, it was automatic. J and I have this thing that we don't leave each other alone in the club. If she goes to the bathroom, I'm there. And vice versa. If I go to the bar, she's going to. Vice Versa. So, what happens if one of us is on the dancefloor? The other one waits or is also on the dancefloor.
Last night, I was so out of my element. This girl (let's call her T), she'd be like "yeah, girl that's my song, let's go" We go get on the floor, we're dancing, I turn around and the next thing I know, she's gone. Gone to the bar, gone to the table, gone to the bathroom. Hell, I don't know where she went. But, to me that's messed up. Anything could happen. YOU NEVER DISAPPPEAR in a club!! I need to know where you are (and vice versa) just incase s!@* goes down!! To top it off, I didn't know any of the girls that were at this party...do you think she introduced us? Um, no!! I was so pissed. Here I am looking fly, walking around the club looking for her, dancing every so often and I feel like I really could've stayed home! Oh, and did I mention that when I ordered me and J's fav drink (sex on the beach), I had a amateur bartender that made my drink ALL WRONG? I was so upset, I took the drink anyway because at that point I needed something!! Lol!!
I got home around 2:30 am. You think I didn't call J to tell her that I had a bad time without her....SURE DID!! So, I should've went with my gut feeling, but I didn't. It's a bad feeling when your looking forward to something and the outcome isn't what you expected. I just felt it..I knew that I wouldn't have as much of a good time with T as I do with J. What a waste of time!!
J is my girl, and we just rock it!! I will never go against my gut feeling again!!
For what it's worth, I still have a bangin' outfit to wear when me and J go out again!! One doesn't outshine the other....we compliment each other...it's cool! Until, next time...
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