Somebody Talk To Me!!

Well, it's Monday night 10:38 p.m. Today was very hectic at work. Question? Do you ever just have a moment where you just want to slap a coworker, or just tell them to shut the hell up? I know I can't be the only one!! Today was one of those days where I had a lot on my mind, but couldn't even focus on my thoughts because work was work x 5!! So, here goes my venting session...

I am a strong believer in "treat people the way you want to be treated". I'm a giver, lover, friend, etc. When I do stuff it is out of the kindness of my heart, but I also believe that people who give eventually become doormats for the people aren't so giving. I don't look for things in return, but I do expect or hope (these days, you can't expect shit outta nobody) that just like I'm there for others, others are there for me. I have a family member who only calls when she's in need of something. We are nowhere near as close as we used to be or as I'd like us to be, and it's for this very reason. I just don't think it's right when people want or "need" something, they expect you to drop eveything (no matter what-wedding, funeral, hair appt, etc), and you come through for them but when you need something (every single time), they got a damn excuse for ya ass!! It's been happening for a minute now, and I know that people only do what you let them do...I think it's about time I said something.

So, going back to last week. I'm at work and Chef C calls me and tells me that one of my "friends" came by. Let's call her "Snake". So, Snake is banging on the door like she's 5-0 and of course your gonna think somethings wrong if someone is banging on your door like that right? So, my hubby( Chef C) opens the door and Snake is doin' what (on sight) you'd call the pee-pee dance....she runs in to use my bathroom. A few minutes go by and Chef C smells something foul and sees green smoke coming from the bottom of the bathroom door (LOL, not really, but you get what I'm saying right?) She finishes doing her biz, thanks Chef C, and leaves.

HOW TRIFLIN' CAN YOU GET? Am I wrong? When I'm wrong, I accept it and move on. Somebody let me know! Mind you, we used to be good friends. But along the way, I noticed how sneaky and conniving she was. We hardly talk at all, maybe a text hear or there. That's it. I think that maybe she should have sent me a text or something letting me know that she was in my house taking a s@!* You don't just drop by someone's house to take a s@!* ESPECIALLY IF YOU AREN'T COOL WITH THE PERSON!! Whether you were cool at some point in time, doesn't matter! WHO DOES THAT? Somebody talk to me!